Author: Sarah

Sarah according to Justin - brings a kindness, compassion and empathy to every conversation she finds herself in. She has a remarkable gift for reaching out and leaving others better than when she met them. She's also a devoted, patient, and loving wife and mother with a passion for seeing God's love realized in this world.

  There is this version of wife and mother and friend and young professional that I wish I was. And then there is this version that I am. How about you? Sometimes the woman I wish I was stares through the mirror at the woman I am. She doesn't scorn me, and I don't resent her. We make eye contact across strange planes of existence, but we never really meet. We're not in opposition to one other, we're not enemies or competitors... we're not...

  This is for anyone looking for a loving relationship, or know someone who is. I made a mistake in my dating years that I wish I had stopped making way sooner. I spent over a decade fumbling my way through first date after first date, and 2-month relationship after 2-month relationship. I made my share of mistakes, breaking hearts or getting heartbroken. Finding love is no walk in the park, pun intended. But if you're still reading to this point... you get that. There...

We're pregnant! 17 weeks to be exact. We're thrilled! And nervous. And thankful. And exhausted! They say first trimester can be tough... With our first, I was tired, but didn't experience the spectrum of symptoms that can plague the first trimester. Thankfully! But the last few months of this year were some of the toughest. Although I'm thankful I wasn't throwing up, queazy waves would hit. It was a struggle just to hold my head up off the table almost every day. I wanted to go to bed...

When are you having a baby? When is the next one coming along? This question has me fired up these days. Because this question causes too much pain for too many people I love and care about. And I get asked this ALL the time. By well-meaning, curious people that I genuinely like. It's often just "casual conversation." But you need to know - this topic is NOT casual conversation. In one question, you are asking a woman about: Her relationship with...

This recipe is tried and true - it's perfect. I've made hundreds of apple pies (no - seriously. I swear.) because for some crazy reason I find it relaxing. Therapeutic almost. Maybe you will too! So – I'm sharing these steps with you just in time for thanksgiving! I learned these simple steps to the PERFECT apple pie from my mother. And now – lucky you – you can too! Homemade. No Preservatives. All natural. It's almost HEALTHY! Haha. Almost. With no further adieu, I wish you the love of apple pie...

Today I turn 31. 31 used to seem old to me. But today, in many ways, I just feel like a better version of my younger self. And in the same breath, I feel like a completely different person. Sort of like the saying "it feels like yesterday" and "it feels like a lifetime ago" applies to the same memory. Anyways, here I am at 31. Maybe that's young to you, or maybe that's old. ;) But birthdays always make me reflect. I don't know...

Pain and suffering are my biggest bones to pick with God. It's Saturday morning. I stood at my stove this morning staring at the fresh pancake batter I just poured into the skillet. It was sizzling... and my toddler was tugging at my pajama pants wanting to know what was going on up there. What was going on were tears. Tears for families I didn't know and people I'll never meet. Justin had just shared the story of a family bracing through hurricane Irma when the doors...

Not into ethical shopping? I'm calling your bluff. Last year I posted a relaxed, smiling picture of myself in a long-sleeved red tee in front of a calm lake on vacation. Within a couple hours it had over 100 likes. My next post was a woman surrounded by heaps of fabric who looked tired and option-less, linking to an article on knowing how to start shopping ethically and end forced labour. It got like... 9 likes. Total. I couldn't help but notice the huge...

Expecting? Know someone who is? Pass this on... I hope it delivers encouragement and strength. We found out we were pregnant on our 1st anniversary. I thought so, but I was waiting to take a test until our anniversary because – how fun is that? That morning, I could hardly wait to get up and pee on a stick. Sure enough, I returned with a grin on my face and a plus sign in my hand to say "happy anniversary!" A moment I will never take for granted....

Don't hate me. Childbirth was easier than I expected. I had heard a lot of things. A lot of dramatic stories. I was hoping for the best but preparing for the toughest. This is a positive birth story. Although there were a couple serious surprises, my labour and delivery of Isaac was one of the most beautiful, powerful and memorable experiences of my life!! Every childbirth story is different and there are so many factors at play. Given how many "horror stories" are shared (loud and proud) that perpetuate...