Author: Sarah

Sarah according to Justin - brings a kindness, compassion and empathy to every conversation she finds herself in. She has a remarkable gift for reaching out and leaving others better than when she met them. She's also a devoted, patient, and loving wife and mother with a passion for seeing God's love realized in this world.

I'm doing my best. I'm trying to care for my child the best I know how. Aren't we all? I'm trying to raise him well, make informed decisions, love him to the very ends of my human limits. And somehow it's not enough. And too much. All at once. The comments started the day he came home from the hospital. Or, more truthfully, the day I found out I was pregnant. At first, I appreciated different perspectives and anything off-colour just rolled off my back....

We all have good days and bad days. Happy days and sad days. Some really sad days. Some really bad days. But there are small, incremental ways to make any day a little better, a little brighter. They're also the small, hidden things that are almost always included in every good day. Here's what I've noticed... When I'm having a bad day – these are the ways I make it better. When I'm having a good day – these are the things...

Here it is. The nitty-gritty, nakedness of how we try to be wise with money day-to-day. This wraps up a 3-part series on how sharing finances makes our marriage stronger. If you missed the first two, catch up with; How Sharing a Bank Account Makes Your Marriage Stronger and How to Enjoy Budgeting. Why does money management even matter in your marriage? Because it's one of the top 10 reasons why couples get divorced, according to Huffington Post last fall. You could almost conclude that half...

  This is will be short and sweet. It's the eve of our baby's 1st birthday and I'm feeling all nostalgic. How fast can a year possibly go? Does every year go this fast?? Parenthood has made me realize a few things. I can function with less sleep than I thought I used to love sleep. I still love sleep. And as amazing as our boy is, I wish he loved sleep a little more! The...

You work hard for the money you make. At least, most of the time. Yes? Maybe you're getting married. Or you are married. Or you're thinking about it. But you want to keep your finances separate. After all, what you make is yours and what your partner makes is theirs. Yes? Plus, you want the freedom to buy what you want. Who wants to "ask" their spouse if they can buy something. Are we all 13 again?? Actually – we've realized that...

  For most of my 20's I would pride myself on being independent. I didn't need a man to start my life, to be financially stable, to have my own place or to be secure in who I was. In fact, that's still true... and I still need look to God for those things. In the world's eyes, I wanted to be an independent woman who could work hard, build stuff, haul stuff and fix stuff. And I was proud of that. Then I got married and...

Face to Face With God

People often think God doesn't interact with humanity. Or think that God doesn't interact with humanity the way He "used to" in the Bible. Or think that He exists at all. But personal experiences and stories make me beg to differ... Justin's story is one of them. His story – which I believe to be powerful and authentic – exploded the box I had God in. When I met Justin, I was 13. I called him Piercy... and he was Piercy...

Good Friday was about death. And we all face it. But today isn't. (If you missed Friday's post, start here. It's important.) Because today... today is Easter Sunday! There are people all around the world that believe on this day, Easter Sunday, the world changed. They believe that death was defeated. They believe that Jesus rose from the dead with our freedom from death in hand. I'm one of those people. You might not be....

good friday, faith, hope, death, life

Death is a strange thing. I’ve sat in the room with death on the way just 3 times in my life. There’s something strange about knowing it’s coming. There's something unnatural, even though it’s the most normal thing in the world. Why does it feel like that? I sat with death on the way recently. Death was coming to a man I loved and admired. He had a huge influence in my life and we were having what I knew was...

  It's a time sucker. It's depressing. It's annoying. It's addictive. This can apply to almost every social media platform out there. For simplicity's sake, I'm going to talk about the biggest platform in the world. Facebook, with it's 1.5 billion users, is hijacking our lives. First of all, it's a comparison trap. Except, it's a terrible comparison. It's a filtered, polished, see-what-you're-permitted-to-see news feed. And that's ok, because that's what it's supposed to be....